There’s a lot to consider before filming your very own sex tape (lighting, mood music, positions, angles). Should microphones be involved, maybe satin zebra sheets, should contracts be signed?

All props aside, let’s strip this display of self-voyeurism down a little.

You know what makes filming yourself such a turn on? It’s the idea of being watched. Just knowing that there’s a lens pointed across and around your ass can be enough to get Bob Jr. right up off the floor in seconds. For many (including those who don’t know it yet), being watched while being touched may be the perfect aphrodisiac.

The excitement behind committing a forbidden act is the basis of public sex. Filming yourself making love to your partner may not be public while you’re doing it, but while that film is rolling, your brain is thinking someone might see this. And even if your intention is entirely focused on privacy, the thought is lingering in the back of your mind. The notion of being exposed and watched may feel creepy in any other circumstance, but during sex, it feels like that other pair of eyes is right there in bed with you. It’s why sex in advertising works; we feel like we’re a part of the action.

It’s all about breaking rules. Sex in a park after dark, in the back of your car in the Wal-Mart parking lot, or on the rooftop of your apartment building can be quite the subversive thrill because it’s just so wrong. That ecstasy is enough to enhance your excitement and raise your endorphins.

The rush of blood to the head may be telling you that you’re scared and should run, but it may also be giving you enough of an energetic boost to dispense right then and there. If your partner is ready and willing, why not get it out sexually? By all means, exploit that energy.

Oh, and one little tip: night vision? Yeah, never sexy. And you may want to avoid HD — not everything needs to be in focus, just saying. From public displays of hardcore affection to indecent exposure, the next time you’re eager to go balls out, make sure the coast is (relatively) clear. Then go for it.Сайт знакомств